It is the most difficult to get rid of it, because it is very deeply rooted in our culture. But only without it, you can fully express yourself and do what is important to you.
It is you, and not someone else, who will have to live with the consequences of the choice made. So why should you live by someone else's values?
In order to make it easier for you to get rid of someone else's idea of success, you first need to understand the essence of your goals. Think about why you want to achieve this or that? What will these achievements bring you?
This fear does not allow many of us to try ourselves in the business of our dreams. The main thing to understand is that you do not have to convince others that your business is important and valuable to you. Try to overcome the constant need for approval from the outside. Those whose opinion really matters to you will surely support you. And the rest are not worth wasting your nerves on.
Focus on the process, not on the reward that awaits you at the end, and you will begin to notice that you are gradually moving towards the life you dreamed of.
Sooner or later you will have to let go of old resentments and unpleasant memories. Otherwise, the future becomes too similar to the past.
We often get angry at the bosses who fired us. Try to let go of this feeling and realize that everything was for the best. After all, if this did not happen to you, you would not be able to move to the next stage of life.
By giving up something, we not only make a sacrifice, but also get something in return, create an opportunity to start something new.
