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How not to fight over money with a partner?
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Lifehacker had detailed material on this topic. There are many reasons for quarrels over money, and the ways to resolve conflicts in each case will be different.
If you are worried that your partner spends a lot, start keeping records of expenses. As a result, it may turn out that the partner spends more because he buys groceries and household chemicals for the whole family. If you are right, the list of expenses will help you analyze your expenses and find out what you can save on.
If your partner earns little, then it is worth remembering that in this matter it is more important to talk than to count money. Not everyone is born to mine millions and no one is obliged to do it. If your partner clearly has no desire to change the situation, take the money-making on yourself. Or look for another partner — it's pointless to re-educate an adult. It is better to spend these forces on what you will be paid for.
If you quarrel for other reasons — read our article at the link above. Most likely, you will find your problem and solutions in it.
