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Virtual sex, cybersex or virt is any interaction on the Internet in order to get erotic pleasure or sexual discharge. It includes:

sexting — the exchange of text messages, photos or videos of erotic content;
sex by voice or phone;
erotic video chat — partners fulfill each other's sexual wishes in front of a webcam.

Unlike watching porn on online resources, cybersex assumes the presence of at least one partner who is involved in the process. At the same time, the participants do not interact with each other physically.

What are the advantages of wirth and why it is worth trying

Often virtual sex is considered "fake", which is not entirely fair. Although everything happens contactless, this is quite an effective way to exchange emotions, get a new experience, keep an erotic interest in each other and just cheer up a little. In addition, Wirth has certain advantages over ordinary sex.

It helps to maintain close relationships for couples who are physically separated. Such sex can serve as a kind of prevention of infidelity.
With Virt, you can't get pregnant or get an STI. This plus is relevant for those who do not have a permanent partner yet, and promiscuous relationships seem too dangerous for health.
With the help of cybersex, people who do not have the opportunity to have regular sex, for example, due to illness, can get an orgasm and improve their well‑being.
Sometimes it's easier to get free on the Internet and realize your fantasies.
Sexting or flirting on the phone is an excellent prelude for a romantic meeting.
Wirth opens up limitless possibilities for role-playing games and reincarnations. You can be anyone online.
If something went wrong, it's enough to log out of the chat. No need to wait until morning or run away into the night, hastily dressing on the go.

What are the risks associated with virtual sex

Yes, you definitely won't get syphilis on the Internet. But you can run into other real troubles. Let's list a few for example.

Your candid photos or videos can be shared, which in turn will affect your personal life and work.
If you are not having virtual sex with a regular partner, there is always a risk that the person on the other side of the screen is not who he claims to be. It happens that not only appearance and age do not match, but even gender.
It's easy to go all out on the Internet, forgetting that you're still dealing with a real person. Which can find you. And this meeting will not necessarily be pleasant.
You may develop a cybersexual addiction. At risk are people with low self-esteem or various sexual disorders. Like any other addiction, an unhealthy attraction to wirth leads to sleep disorders, problems at work and family troubles.

How to protect yourself from trouble by doing wirth

Of course, it is impossible to insure yourself against all the dangers that lie in wait for you in the virtual space — just like in real life. But adhering to some rules, you will still be able to avoid undesirable consequences with a high degree of probability. Lifehacker has already published tips on safe sexting. Let's add a few more recommendations.

Remain anonymous

When having a virtual affair with a stranger, use a nickname, not a real name. Do not give your phone, do not share details about your work, friends or hobbies. This will make it harder to track you in real life.

Dim the lights

Have you agreed to meet someone unfamiliar in a video chat? Dim the lights in the room and remove from the frame all the things that can tell more about you than you need: photos, certificates, corporate T-shirts.

Remember that virtual treason is still treason

Online cheating is just as destructive The truth about online cheating / Verywell Mind for a relationship, just like a traditional romance on the side. Do you feel that you are being dragged into the maelstrom of virtual passion in the presence of a permanent partner? Treat this as an alarming sign: something is wrong in your couple, and it will not hurt you to consult a family therapist. If, of course, you want to save your family.

Track addiction

If you flirt on the phone for 5-6 Four dangers of involving in cyber sex / The Infidelity Recovery Institute hours a day, but in reality, for years there have been problems in your personal life, it seems that you have an addiction. It is possible that you, as in the case of infidelity, need the help of a psychotherapist.

Keep your friends informed

Let's say you've been dating someone online for a long time and finally decided on a real date. Be sure to inform several friends or girlfriends about the place and time of the meeting. Arrange for them to make a "control call" at a certain point. Come up with a code word that will mean: "Something is wrong. I need help!"

If you are uncomfortable, just leave the chat

Like any other kind of sex, Wirth is not suitable for everyone. Sometimes it just doesn't work: it doesn't excite, it doesn't cause emotions. If you don't like it, click the mouse and it's over.