What is rabbing and why you should try this kind of sex

What is rabbing and who should try it

Rabbing is the rubbing of the genitals against objects or any part of the partner's body in order to obtain sexual pleasure. You can practice this technique in clothes, in underwear or naked, in pairs or solo — during masturbation. Sometimes rubbing the genitals without penetration is also called Dry Humping / Kinkly dry-jumping and frottage.

Rabbing may seem like something frivolous: either a game for teenagers, or foreplay to warm up, followed by "normal" penetration sex. But in fact, he can deliver no less pleasure.

Stimulation of the clitoris and glans of the penis during friction may well bring you to orgasm. And if you simultaneously caress other erogenous zones, connect sex toys or fantasy, you can get unforgettable sensations.

Try this sexual practice if you:

1. You want to diversify your sex life. Many couples perceive sex as a sequence of kisses, oral caresses and penetration. This attitude can make intimacy a boring activity, especially if the partners have been living together for a long time. Rabbing will allow you to diversify sex, get a lot of new experiences and stop considering penetration the only way to reach orgasm.
2. Strive for the safest sex possible. Rabbing excludes pregnancy, and if you do it in clothes, then sexually transmitted diseases. At the same time, there is still a risk of contracting STDs, such as herpes, syphilis or HPV, upon skin contact. Therefore, if you are not sure about your partner, it is still better to protect yourself while naked.
3. Don't want to have penetration sex. Some diseases and conditions can cause physical or psychological discomfort during penetration. For example, 20-30% of men of reproductive age suffer A. V. Raveendran, A. Agarwal. Premature ejaculation — current concepts in the management: A narrative review / International journal of reproductive biomedicine premature ejaculation, and 8-21.8% of women face P. Latthe, M. Latthe, L. Say. WHO systematic review of prevalence of chronic pelvic pain: a neglected reproductive health morbidity / BMC Public Health with pain during or after penetration sex. With the help of rabbing, both partners can have fun and reach orgasm without pain and anxiety.

How to try rabbing alone

If you have never tried rabbing and are not sure if you will like it, you can first test this sexual practice during masturbation.

Choose an item: the edge of the mattress or the back of the sofa, the armrest of the chair, a pillow or another fairly soft option, and start rubbing against it.

Focus on the sensations, choose the appropriate angle and pace of movement. If you like the feeling, try to bring rabbing into partner sex.

How to prepare for a rabbi with a partner

There are several points that should be considered so that the rabbing will bring pleasure to both lovers.

1. Discuss your plans. It is worth defining the boundaries in advance: whether you will be in clothes, underwear or naked, whether you are going to touch your genitals and whether it is worth using contraception. Also discuss whether you will limit yourself to rabbing or move on to penetration sex.
2. Choose the right underwear. If you are going to do rabbing in underpants, it is better to stop at a model made of a thin sliding fabric like silk. Avoid lace: it looks sexy, but it can cause discomfort during friction.
3. Prepare the lubricant. The lubricant will provide a better glide and prevent rubbing of the genitals. If you plan to do naked bondage, you can take silicone lubricant, if in underwear — take a water-based lubricant so as not to dirty things.

In what positions can I practice rabbing

We will list some of the most suitable options.

Missionary

The woman lies on her back and spreads her legs, the man sits on top and rubs against her.

"Rider" on the edge of the bed

The man lies on his back on the edge and lowers his legs, the woman settles on top of him, leans forward, leans her hands on the bed and moves. The same can be done while sitting.

With the leg raised

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The woman sits on the edge of the bed, leaves one foot on the floor, and takes the other aside. The man is positioned facing her and moves close so that the genitals touch. He bends the knee of the leg that is closer to the edge, and stretches the other leg on the bed. At the same time, the partner throws his shoulders back and leans on his hands, and the partner puts a bent leg on his shoulder.

In an inclined position on the edge

The man lies down on the floor next to the sofa, throwing his pelvis and legs on its edge. The woman is positioned on top so that the genitals touch, bends her legs at the knees and rests her feet on the edge of the sofa. At the same time, she rests her hands on the floor and moves on her partner.

How to make rabbing even more enjoyable

Here are some ways to increase sensual pleasure.

1. Take your time.Rushing off the bat, you will not give yourself time to get properly excited and may experience discomfort from friction. So start gradually. First, touch your genitals and stay still. Kiss, caress your partner's neck, ears, nipples and other erogenous zones. Spend some time anticipating intimacy, and then start slowly and smoothly rubbing against each other. As you become aroused, increase the intensity to the one necessary for orgasm.
2. Use sex toys. In addition to rubbing against a partner, you can insert a vibrator into the vagina or anus, use anal plugs, vacuum stimulators, nipple clamps. By simultaneously affecting different erogenous zones, you increase your chances of a vivid orgasm.
3. Try different options. Rabbing is not limited to rubbing against the partner's genitals — you can use other places. A woman can rub her vulva against her partner's arm, leg or stomach, a man can insert a penis between her breasts, buttocks or closed hips of his mistress. A new experience can excite you much more than ordinary penetration sex.