Forget about others for a while, take care only of yourself. Ask yourself: if you were completely alone, without friends and family, without a hated job and would not be limited in choice, what would you like to do? Don't be afraid to show healthy selfishness and don't be ashamed of it. If you don't put your interests above the public, then no one will do it.
Constantly regretting what you have done or not done in the past means standing still. Don't live in the past and don't regret anything. Live for today, live for the future.
We don't always understand what we need in life. And it is extremely difficult to find out. Concentrate and think about what is really important to you. Family? Freedom of expression? Financial well-being? Make a list of priorities, it may help.
It is reasonable to decide what you want to do, you can only do when nothing holds you back. If you are upset or your head is full of things, then you will never be able to make a decision. Figure out what exactly is annoying at the moment. "I hate working in the office" is not the answer. What particular aspect of the job is causing concern? Annoyed by the boss? Work schedule? Dissatisfied with the position?
Think about how to fix it. Perhaps there are no serious problems in the current situation and changing only a couple of aspects will make you a happy person.
Pleasure is the key to a happy life. A person who enjoys life does not just live his years, but fills them with meaning. Remember the moments in your life when you were happy. What brought you pleasure? Travel? Communication with children? Company management? It will be easier to choose the next path, knowing what exactly makes you happy.
There is no need to hide from relatives and friends the decision to give up everything and go towards the dream. By sharing your thoughts with them, you can get support and new ideas that you would not have thought of yourself.
Life does not always go according to the script we wrote. But there is no need to fall into apathy if something did not work out. Instead of grieving and doing nothing, continue what you started with a vengeance. Sooner or later, success will come. Do not give up, but think about the good and do what you have dreamed of all your life.
Just don't think that finding your destination is easy. Many people have been looking for it all their lives. The main thing is not to stop and keep looking. It's bound to happen one day. And until then, try different professions and occupations. After all, without trying, you will never know whether it is yours or not.
