Life is beautiful when you create it yourself.
Sophie Marceau
Everyone chooses their own life. Defines goals, fills them with meaning and values. But there are simple things without which no one can live fully. For one reason or another, they are the ones we often lose. It is they who are so difficult to return, and sometimes to find. Health, love, work, faith, time, friends, rules, family — basic needs, without which life becomes bland and passes without us.
In order to return the demon to a whole life, you need to realize that you have taken a wrong turn somewhere. This is the first, most difficult step. We are ready to punch ourselves in the chest, blame the whole world for our failures, but with the persistence of a rhinoceros, we continue to believe that we are doing everything right. As long as you don't look yourself in the eye and honestly admit your mistakes, nothing will change.
But this is not enough. Under deep remorse for one's own imperfection, it is easy to bury the desire and ability to change. The second step is even more difficult. You need to sincerely believe that you are able to change everything and, in fact, start living anew. Therefore, to begin with —
Self-belief is the golden core on which success is based. This is the first step on the way to a full life. If we analyze the stories of successful people, we can distinguish 3 qualities peculiar to them: the presence of goals, perseverance and self-belief. Oddly enough, but in this case, faith is based on evidence, so the best way to start is to fix your achievements. Start small and believe in yourself.
Endless plans for the future, impossible dreams, pressure from other people and fears are all an extra burden that prevents you from gaining self-confidence. These and other things only hinder you. A full and happy life includes not only the possession of certain qualities, but also getting rid of everything superfluous. Get rid of everything that prevents you from moving forward.
In order to move forward, you need not only self-confidence, but, in fact, the presence of forces. It would be a shame to be filled with aspiration and run out halfway, wouldn't it? The presence of physical strength is directly related to the strength of the spirit and self-confidence. Do you need victories? Start exercising. By anyone. You will see progress, and this will already give you strength. In a healthy body, a healthy mind — beaten up? But, nevertheless, the truth.
It all starts with simple things. The source of your peace of mind is not the world around you, but yourself. Your attitude to life and, most importantly, to the little things. Actually, the whole life consists of little things. The Japanese, born philosophers of life, know a lot about this. Learn to enjoy the little things. To begin with, — go to the mirror and smile…
Work! Here is one of the highest sources of stress and a whole series of obstacles in the head. First of all, analyze what you are doing now. If you understand that it's time to change something, you will get used to the very idea of changing. Yes, yes. Often, we are more afraid of the fact of the change itself than its real scale and consequences. As soon as you realize that you can quit your current job and change the scope of your activity at any time, life will become easier, life will become more fun.
A full life is happiness. In order to understand which path to choose, it is necessary to understand where to go. In other words, everyone has their own definition of happiness and you should clearly formulate it for yourself. It is impossible to achieve what you cannot imagine. And what is your happiness?
On the way to happiness, there are a huge number of obstacles. Sometimes there is so much piling up that you want to give up. When you are surrounded by chaos, there should be peace and order inside. There are many ways to manage your affairs — currently, everyone is just obsessed with time management. But, whatever system you choose for yourself, there are simple rules of productivity that we have known since childhood.
Be that as it may, but we are all social beings. Relationships with other people relate to basic needs that we strive to satisfy by hook or by crook. Your success largely depends on your relationships with your loved ones. Again, if you take the stories of successful people, there will be those in them who believed in them, gave them their love and warmth. So stop spoiling such valuable relationships and offending your loved ones.
It's time to reach a new level! A full life begins only when you control yourself. The acquisition of useful habits is not only an indicator of self-control, but also the excitement of success, and automation of many useful actions. The most difficult to implement are habits related to the perception of oneself and the world. Challenge yourself first of all. Only by winning this victory will you be able to defeat someone else.
Perhaps the most important rule that needs to be learned in order to return to a full life is to give more than you want to take. Give it away just like that. Don't expect to be given something in return. In the modern world, we are taught to be tough and always take everything we can. Forget about it. Only healthy altruism helps, in fact, to get everything you want.
That's all you need to know to get back to a full life. Live happily ever after. Don't complicate it, because everything in this world is very simple.
